now i am in holiday mood =)....
lets talk about what i learn during this holiday that isn't end yet...
for previous few holiday i will stay up in home and say boring until holiday end and i will say why so many things to do..
I believe many people will say the same thing as well...
This holiday maybe different a bit...
Hmm i think this holiday has been a week and yet i haven say anything that sound like boring...
playing game still my first option well maybe second or third ?
because i got something going on...
and 1 of it is learn how to see further and got a plan for next 10 years maybe?

I actually learned something that very valuable ....priceless indeed..

The first thing that happens after you upset you will find who you really are..

And the following i fully agree of it..
The cast of character who brought to center stage when upset from mistake occur..

The Liar
The liar will say such things as :"I didnt do that", Or "No.no.no It wasnt me" or "I dont know how that happened" or "Prove it"

The Blammer.
The blammer will say such things as" it's your fault not mine" or "If my wife didnt spend so much i will be bettter off financially" and so on so on that push their blame on other people..

The Justifier
The justifier says thing such as "Well i dont have a good education so that's why i dont get ahead"
or "I would have made it if i had had more time" or " well every1 else was doing it"

The Quitter
The quitter says things such as "I told you that it would neveer work" Or "This is too hard and it's not worth it .I am going to do something else easier" or "Why am i doing this?i dont need this hassle"

The denier
This kind of people often call as cat in the littter box which means this person tends to bury his or her mistakes.The person who denies that he or she has made a mistake often say things such as "No,there's nothing wrong,things are fine"
Or
"Mistake?what mistake"
Or
"Dont worry things will work out"

When people are upset due to a mistake or accident,one or more of these characters will take oveer their mind and body.If you wan to learn and gain wisdom from the priceless mistake,you have to let The Responsible you eventually take control of your thinking.The Responsible you will eventually say,"What priceless lesson can i learn from this mistake?"

If a person say,"What i learned is that i'll never do this again" he or she probably has not learned much...Too many people live in a diminishing world because they continue to say ,i'll never do that again instead of saying ,i'm glad that happened because i learned this or that from experience.

Got it?? =)

Btw this is extract from some Rich dad book.. *winks*


Think about it which character bring to the center of the stage when you got upset from mistake.Or is that responsible that take over the role of the above 5??
Learn to accept mistake and learn the magic inside the mistake..

Ya ..There's another way to release your anger, try it out and tell me is tat useful..when you got angry the first thing you do is in your heart count 1 to 10...
If you are really really angry count from 1 to 100...
TRY IT OUT...
and after that just say i apologize =)..

Mistake bring wisdom ^^...