I wont read newspaper except got some very big thing happening out there..
Cut it short , today i read Star newspaper..Heart & Soul section , there's where i stop upon and read while i was walking along the road back to my house...
Before telling anything , firstly Heart & Soul is sort of like giving people opportunity to ask some question they face in life which they couldn't find any answer...then you can find "Thelma" to give u some sincere advice =)...
This particular column attract me because i saw this title "Are you ready for love" further looking down..i saw the people who is facing problem almost same age as mine...21 years old and his gf is 20...
That's a long story he put actually , cut it short is something like this..
They both studying in the same university , while recently her gf asked for a break because she wan to study abroad and doesn't believe in a long distance relationship.The boy friend got frustrated and doesn't wan to bother any calls or sms from his gf. The gf left him a pendrive in the locker with some sweet memories inside there..and a letter with this short tearful sentence "You deserve better , hope you can find someone better than i am" . Well at last he feel regret and depress , he thinking of further study in a university that near her to "regain" this relationship.
and here's the advice from "Thelma"
Is also a very long and meaningful advice.For me it sound like a bit lecture infront from Telma..but it really good to learn from..
"Your reaction to her decision to take a break from further studies shows your immaturity and selfishness , although she's ambitious and determined . she tried very hard to make peace with you before leaving .But you deliberately ignored her calls and messages until she'd left. Did it make you feel better to cause her tears and heartache ? If you were truly ready for love you would have encourage her plans for her future. Instead you sulked like a spoilt brat who couldn't get his way.
Thinking for the person you care about is part of love.
Now you choose to study close to your girlfriend , remember that proximity cannot guarantee love. At this point you will both be meeting different people , moving in separate circles and having your own study and social schedules.
Out look and expectations change as you develop confidence and awareness of self in a new environment . You may both want to experience and explore this phase of your lives instead of continuing the relationship.
Every relationship will have its own challenges before you meet someone you wan to marry and have children with.Take your time to know your heart and mind . Dont always think of yourself or you will neglect your partner's emotional needs. A selfish relationship cannot sustain love , compromise and understanding in the long term."
-The End-
2009 is a year full with a lot of fun stuff and a lot of tough experience too..
My 20th anniversary! soon i am able to walk into casino ask the guard "what you wan huh ?! I am 21 now!"
I really happy that i done a lot of stuff successfully...Socially i have more friendsss in penang now!! sadly i am going to leave soon..
Today is X'MAS Eve and just now while waiting for my burger to come..i start to flash back the whole year...I feel really sweet...
If you know me well , definitely you have see through my some of my photo album in facebook..when i look back to those photos i found that i was "LOL" BIG!
Maybe like the following photos!
If you ask me today , which year that i exercise the most...definitely is 2009!
(Credit to Joshua =P)
and
If you ask me today , which year that i am busy the most...definitely is 2009 too!
AND
If you ask me today ,which year i laugh from deep heart the most ..
IS 2009!
Happy time fill most of the time up...yet sometime i got some tough time!
It's a tough year too , because i face a lot of thing myself the whole year..Is hard to seek for help .. everyone is busy out there..Even when they are not maybe they got activity with their gf/bf..
*winks* those who reading definitely know who i am talking about...
Those happiness i have cant describe in word...My heart that tell me 2009 help me to grow a lot with happiness along..
Yup afterall the wish that i make for 2009 didnt come true...
Are you curious what is the wish??
tell u on the last day of the year!
In 2010 ..there's more exciting things coming...i am waiting for it..
I plan for something in 2010..Pray hard and work hard for it!
Definitely i will =)..
Lastly..
Dedicated to someone...
i wan to say...
This year is i feel i am no longer someone really important to you anymore...maybe so far not important also =P
In the same time i am happy that you find your life , i got nothing that can do for you except pray for you
At the end of the post!
Merry X'Mas everyone...Lets continue our story in 2010!
Have you ever inspire by some clips...........
It doesn't matter winning or losing!
It make you mentally stronger..
Closer to the goal everyday
Hard work and sweat
Definitely worth for it!
I see the stronger me behind myself when i give it all out!
In my club there's a national player , he have aim Ironman for his mission...Every step moving towards his goal..He make the way to his promise through action and he prove to be 1 of the most pro player in floorball !
There's a clip he recently put in his blog !
That's really inspiring!!
Although i am not that tough...but i will try to push it as far as i can!!
Somehow maybe some of you are like me didn't play sport so often..There's some video related
to my work too!!
How international-Ace gather in one place..Using technology solve the world problem ...
It benefit the world ...It benefit us...Through technology!
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Fight hard for it...and that's my GOAL for next few year!
This is more than a goal and more than a dream!!
Is not that the skill count, is the idea that count!
A tourist visiting England's Eton College asked the gardener how he got the lawns so perfect. "That's easy ," he repleid , "You just brush off the dew every morning , mow them every other day, and roll them once a week."
"Is that all?" asked the tourist.
"Absolutely," replied the gardener ." Do that for 500 years and you'll have a nice lawn, too".
Great lawns need small amounts of daily care and so do great programmers.Management consultants like to drop the word kaizen in conversations . "kaizen" is a Japanese term that captures the concept of continuous making many small improvements. It was considered to be one of the main reason for the dramatic gain in productivity and quality in Japanese manufacturing and was widely copied throughout the world.
Every day work to refine the skills you have and to add new tools to your repertoire.
Unlike the Eton lawns , you'll start seeing results in a matter of days. Over the years, you'll be amazed at how your experience has blossomed and your skills have grown.
"Taken from The Pragmatic Programmer by Andrew Hunt & David Thomas"
No need to care about those word that doesn't apply to you...It's a general philosophy for everyone...
I have some song that i listen for couple hundres of time...i still listening .. One of it is "The climb" by milley cyrus , second on the list will be "No boundaries" by Kris allen..They have one point in common is that those are very inspiring song..ops i forgot about "Hero" by Mariah Carey ..One of my favourite currently...
I was lying on my bed yesterday , i think about "tomorrow"...I know my target to hit , if i am working i must fight very hard at early stage...so it wont become a burden for me in the future when i am growing and have something else that's equally important to my job..
How about today..
Searching through the net , read those article that written by successful CEO definitely inspire me a lot...They have their own mission to grow better , they even encourage people to grow better even they are opposition in business wise for them...
How many people will really do it today??
If you do something better today , there's less worry you have tomorrow...Result dont always appear right away...they have to take time to "process" as well...
Are you eager to look for a good result to be appeared infront of you tomorrow??
That's desire to grow better...not for anything but for yourself...
Don't just read it through your eyes and store it in your mind...feel it your own , that's the joy of hardwork and the result of success...
“Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it..”
It comes late , I should have been doing this earlier on..so i can have more people on my blog!
There's always a idea more than a action. In short , what i should really been doing is...make my blog better ! Layout is not really going to change much ..people always tell me that this blog too much feature ,that blog too fancy.. well i am not skillful in that , so i just left it like that since some of them say it look "OK"..
More to share , here's some...
It has been a while since i bought a book "Web Content"...This book is quite nice actually , what mainly this book about is how a comfort looking web really need to be.. Several time i plan to work it out in some small start-up business .. but i lack of some strong will to stay close to it..
Why not now??
There's a magazine " Entrepreneur " it's a monthly magazine from US .. RM21.50 you can find it in borders for Penang. They have a very nice web , mainly a lot of inspiring words is come from there...i will post up more about it for coming post.
Back to blog matter , don't get me wrong ... It's not because i wan to have a small start up that's why this blog is sort of like a practice ... While reading this post , i believe you are mostly my friend who i know that's reading... In this blogspot you are not only my friend but also my customer or guess...I am responsible as a owner to bring you comfort reading , so you can understand easily what i am trying to say..
Please do come back with me for some feedback , I love feedback !
Basically i will start to put label for those post in all the coming post ..
Lastly , read it feel it...tell me how you think about previous post and also layout..
*I don't take picture a lot , so i don't have much picture can show you" if upon your request i will try my best to do it for you =)*..
Really a big thanks to every Innebandies play for SUKPEN...You all really shine bright in some part of my life.. =)...and I PROMISED i will train harder to be a good defender ! This gold medal is really a history of my life ..*dropping tears*
One team , One way ! Despite my bad play in SUKPEN , they always encourage me to move on ..Grow to be better ! They show me with their spirit their action..every move show the bonds between innebandies...
Our pro defender and pro forward .. #10 and roobean.. was talking while the blackout yesterday..i manage to take 1 photo during yesterday match..but none for today final ..i will try to put it on when people post it on blog =)....Gold medal shine bright ...
but for me it shine in my heart even brighter with innebandies ...
I am proud to be part of this family...and i am forever is part of this family..
congratz =)..
First of all , today i got myself a baby..=)
Let me introduce you my baby...
UNIHOC Volcano 29..
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^_^v ..wheeee !! ok i know somebody see pink sure laughing...kenny (that seller) he tell me pink only is real man ok!! He say 1 la...For joshua information , i buy this instead of the blue 1 is because this is lighter , blade is in the max size d =D...NOT BECAUSE IT'S PINK!
Hopefully this thursday can use in SUKPEN...
Today i got a lot of outcome , despite days of OT without money ..i finally make the touchscreen product more stable than 2 weeks ago...it's near to the completion d...Although my manager they didn't pressure us , but can see from his face....he's very concern about it...I will do my best , my dear manager...don't worry..What i earn from my OT despite experience and no money..i earn some compliment...hopefully it will be written on my final report too =)...
Of cos my hardwork for this is not because i wan to earn their compliment , or more money but to make my life easier in the future (not by their report,of course if they wan to give me i will take it =P)..
After OT till 8'o clock like that , i was thinking to go for storm warrior ... manatau still haven in the cinema yet..no wonder so few people there today...
There's a inspiring song that help me out when i am really down ...when i just wan to give up...
HERO-Mariah Carey
"when you feel like hope is gone Look inside you and be strong And you'll finally see the truth That a hero lies in you "
Keep believing!!...
Update you about the game how it goes =)...
Bye bye...
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