This Is The Tomorrow That I Can SEE.."HOPE"
I wont read newspaper except got some very big thing happening out there..
Cut it short , today i read Star newspaper..Heart & Soul section , there's where i stop upon and read while i was walking along the road back to my house...
Before telling anything , firstly Heart & Soul is sort of like giving people opportunity to ask some question they face in life which they couldn't find any answer...then you can find "Thelma" to give u some sincere advice =)...
This particular column attract me because i saw this title "Are you ready for love" further looking down..i saw the people who is facing problem almost same age as mine...21 years old and his gf is 20...
That's a long story he put actually , cut it short is something like this..
They both studying in the same university , while recently her gf asked for a break because she wan to study abroad and doesn't believe in a long distance relationship.The boy friend got frustrated and doesn't wan to bother any calls or sms from his gf. The gf left him a pendrive in the locker with some sweet memories inside there..and a letter with this short tearful sentence "You deserve better , hope you can find someone better than i am" . Well at last he feel regret and depress , he thinking of further study in a university that near her to "regain" this relationship.
and here's the advice from "Thelma"
Is also a very long and meaningful advice.For me it sound like a bit lecture infront from Telma..but it really good to learn from..
"Your reaction to her decision to take a break from further studies shows your immaturity and selfishness , although she's ambitious and determined . she tried very hard to make peace with you before leaving .But you deliberately ignored her calls and messages until she'd left. Did it make you feel better to cause her tears and heartache ? If you were truly ready for love you would have encourage her plans for her future. Instead you sulked like a spoilt brat who couldn't get his way.
Thinking for the person you care about is part of love.
Now you choose to study close to your girlfriend , remember that proximity cannot guarantee love. At this point you will both be meeting different people , moving in separate circles and having your own study and social schedules.
Out look and expectations change as you develop confidence and awareness of self in a new environment . You may both want to experience and explore this phase of your lives instead of continuing the relationship.
Every relationship will have its own challenges before you meet someone you wan to marry and have children with.Take your time to know your heart and mind . Dont always think of yourself or you will neglect your partner's emotional needs. A selfish relationship cannot sustain love , compromise and understanding in the long term."
-The End-
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