Things flow through life day over day, growing up .....xmas is going to be up soon enough,either for my final of semester 5...many things came to the end of this year, yet many upcoming things going to be done by us ,the youth and the future of the world =)..

Until yesterday i only realized how exhausted one people can go, yesterday i was doing my research for nothing ..I feel so helpless sometime when thing doesn't in my way that i wished it to be, but i wont give up ..i know it can be really really very hard , i having my hopes on my team , i am not going to face all thing by myself at least..

As what i learned from the team-building last saturday , the lesson revealed what path actually we been walking through this year or maybe this 19 years...the team-building about leadership , the whole teambuilding is all about understanding yourself ,your friends and indeed every1 you interact with everyday ...have you ever realize someday when you are telling your teamate to do his part but he just messing around and dont get into the job?? you pushing him/her all the way to get things done yet he/she not giving much response ?? It's normal...there's a idiom in BM "rambut sama-sama hitam , hati lain-lain" which mean although we are homosapiens , mind-set surely have some gap in between...styles ,ideas ,attitude and much more thing that i can list out..
Maybe another example will be good enough , have you ever watch any football match or basketball match ...AHAR!!BADMINTON (DOUBLE ) ..as you can see in a team maybe is just few of the player is playing very well and others may not in form or somewhat , if the gap or what we called it teamwork is not as good as opponents even you have the best player in your team it's not gonna to work forever to guard the victory ...Maybe in badminton you know that lee chong wei had play veery very well and all hopes fall on him, but try to imagine if one day lee chong wei team with a stranger that not as skillful as him or maybe just a amateur , do you think they can beat a team with boleh-cari-makan skill and have a stronghold between them?? definately it's uncertain or most probably lee chong wei that team will be torn apart ..

Back to real life , when come to assigment or whatsoever about project and so on...you will always seek for the team you normally form , as there's something special that inside your team ,what's the special that you can think about??and why dont you every time will find other peoples instead of your own friends?? because when come to doing stuff together your friend can understand your mind-set more than other ...they will do their job to help you to concentrate on your own job and not to worry about theirs..in between you and your team understand what they going to do ...

Dont pissed off when you facing your teamate that bringing you trouble , try to communicate with them and try to understand what they what instead of bring them into your world and tell them what you want...What if you are taking the role of a leader?? Not a big deal , try to stand on their position and think what actually they wan...Every things is the same ,they having the same basic /concept, when deal with human we need to think what they actually expect us to do , when come to deal with customer of cos it gonna be crashing ur skull to understand about what they might wan our service to be on , and it's hard to argue with customer as "customer always right!!" =)..

I am not enough to afford the responsible with my puny shoulder?
Then that's when esprit de corps come into =), remember you are not always alone , maybe not much friend you have or none , but everything is flexible in social life, communication skill either you have none?? then learn it from the people who is well-known with his interact among the crowd..many thing you didnt expect it can happen , but it can be real and concrete if you put your effort on it...

Investment is a buzzword of nowadays , not spending money is also saving money at the same time..of cos people like to use the money today than money after 10 years although the money after 10 years can be tremendous..but for me what i think important in a people or a company is not the modal they have to start off is the spirit of the follower ..many big company start off with 2 peoples until today a big company that well-spread over the world , Intel cooperation is a good exam ..For your information the founder of intel was from Fairchild semiconductor ..many not many people know what's fairchild semicon but surely every1 know what's intel processor pentium 4 ,dual-core, quad-core and so on so on..What they start off the business is not a big amount of money but is the will that they have in their mind to become a cooperation leader..working out hard with another partner and build the miracle that someone think is impossible!Investing in esprit de corps bring more outcome than investing your money into the bank for 3% or even more interest..

People look down on you , but it's not going to be affect your will to be success infront of them..they say impossible?!?! then show them what you have, there's so many well-known people you can find in the world that making miracle, they can do this miracle alone but people(s) that have the concept of strong bonding can do even better ..That's why teamwork own every impossible ,that's why esprit de corps showed us how important it's in our life =)...

EHERM, after long typing i am kinda of tired and i feel like i am banging the table and act like a boss =P...but if this post is getting into your mind then i dont mind to be the 1 banging table ..
Sorry for being boring here , but you know....talks about this kind of stuff always is boring just like chinese medicine that cure your illness wont be sweet like honey *winks*...

Ahar, one last thing.Any feedback pls post through >>> the box there..sorry for my poor english ,maybe i should go for a english class under Mr.Joshua Yam Went Thai .. =P hehe